Why do so much people seek romantic love. romantic love is nothing but heartache?

you get that euphoria feeling for a while but then that evntually wears off and all you have left is pain, heartache, and stress. who wants to endure that? most guys dont know how to stay with one woman. they just enjoy the thrill of the chase, but then they get bored once they got you and want something else. tell me im wrong? look at the divorce rates in america these days. OUTRAGEOUSLY high. no such thing as true love. nobody gives a flying F about love. just get a friends with benefits and forget about this "falling in love" crap. its not like people actually stay together forever these days. this is 2011.